KALEIDOSCOPE YOUTH CENTER
  • Programs
    • Center Based Programs >
      • Genderscope
    • Community Based Wellness
    • Ohio GSA Network
    • Community Education >
      • KnowTheFacts
      • Ohio Thrives
    • Resources
    • Advocacy
  • Get Involved
    • As a Youth
    • As a Guardian
    • As a Community >
      • Blog
    • As a Volunteer
  • Calendar
  • Donate
    • Other Ways To Give
    • The Unity Soiree
    • KYC Unity Circle
    • Wish List
    • KYC Store

Blog

“I can say without a doubt that my son’s life has been saved by KYC...”
-Parent of KYC Youth

A Note on Community

2/28/2023

 
KYC's QTPOC Community Care Manager discusses belonging, intersectionality and community.
Picture
Growing up, I always knew I was different from the people around me.
My skin was darker, my hair was curlier, and my family traditions didn’t always match my peers.
By the time I was 18, I knew how to move through the world in a way that can be described as “palatable”.
In my adolescence, I was finally able to understand what the difference was between myself and the others: I was one of ten Black people in my grade. In an effort to blend in, I began a process of assimilation. I straightened my hair to look similar to my white peers, I listened to alternative music, and I dressed preppy enough I could walk through the halls and blend in.​​
​By the time I was 18, I knew how to move through the world in a way that can be described as “palatable.” I had completely divorced myself of my culture, worried more about how I would be perceived by white people than how I was honoring myself. ​
I carried this attitude with me to college, where I made a conscious effort to deeper align myself with my queerness while simultaneously rejecting any opportunities to build a connection with the Black community.

​I felt I had to choose one part of my identity over the other for fear of rejection- I didn’t want to be too Black for queer spaces or too queer for Black spaces. I became a member of an LGBTQ sorority, I volunteered for the LGBTQ center, I even sat on a panel of queer students with the president of the university. By the time I graduated, I had received one of the highest student honors for my involvement on campus. I had made what was considered to be a lasting impact on my community. Little did I know it would have a lasting impact on me.
KYC's Upcoming Youth Programming
For a full view of what we have going on, check out our programming calendar here!
Picture
As I transitioned out of college life and into young adulthood, I began to notice a lack of diversity among the company I kept. For even though I had woven a beautiful community of people into my life, I had failed to integrate a key demographic: Black folks. This made my early twenties quite tumultuous. While I flourished in the arena of queerness, I was almost completely isolated in my Blackness. I had no Black friends, specifically no Black queer friends, and was starting to see how this unique intersection of identities was not shared with anyone in my circle.
Kimberlé Crenshaw​, a Black queer legal activist, defines intersectionality as the way people’s different identities (like race, ethnicity, gender, sexuality, age, ability, socioeconomic status, etc.) impact the way they’re perceived and able to navigate through the world. Although this term was originally coined to describe shortcomings in the legal system, it soon became popular among feminist thinkers and political media. ​
The concept of intersectionality describes the ways in which systems of inequality based on gender, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity, disability, class and other forms of discrimination “intersect” to create unique dynamics and effects.
​
 - The Center for Intersectional Justice
​​The discovery of this term intersectionality lit a fire of change within me. Rather than embracing all facets of myself, I had been dividing myself into my varied identities, limiting the opportunity for me to show up fully in any given space. I was so set on engaging the parts of myself that matched the mainstream, I was missing out on the chance to nourish the parts that make me uniquely myself.
After 27 years, I finally found the courage to stop holding back. 

Today, I find myself on the opposite end of the spectrum from adolescent Lisanne. I have taken a role where uplifting people of color is my main goal; I have started connecting with BIPOC folks through public events; I have become more vocal about my experiences as a Black woman. I am no longer worried about being the most palatable in the room, but the most proud. What instigated this change you may ask?
The answer is simple: community.
My name is Lisanne, and I am a 27 year old queer Black woman in Columbus, OH.
I recently joined the Kaleidoscope Youth Center team as the QTPOC Community Care Manager, where I focus on uplifting the stories and voices of young queer people of color. Since joining the KYC team, I have experienced community in a way I never knew possible. I have been supported in my exploration of Black queerness, both historically and personally. I have engaged in conversations and discussions that have challenged my thinking, and helped me find new understanding. I have laughed with the youth, cried with the staff, and felt a new sense of happiness. I have reconnected with a side of myself I held back for so long. ​
​In my time with KYC, I hope to create a sense of community among our QTPOC youth.​
​
​
I want to inspire the next generation of Black queer folks to live out and proud, not shy away from their intersecting identity. I want to demonstrate that we are creators of Black queer history, in moments big and small. Most importantly, I want to celebrate. I want to celebrate the joy that comes with being a Black queer person. I want to celebrate the expansive beauty that is being a Black queer person. I want to celebrate a community that’s spent too long in the shadows. 


After all, belonging begins here. ​

Comments are closed.
    Picture
    Looking for Resources?
    Picture
    7 Ways to Support
    ​Queer Youth
    🌈 Become a Donor
    ​
    🛒Shop Our Store
    📃View Amazon Wishlist
    🏘️ Host a Fundraiser
    ​
    🦸 Become a Volunteer 
    ​🦄 Join the Unity Circle
    ​
    🔔 Subscribe for Alerts
    Picture
    Check Our Our Podcast 
    🎧Speaking Queerly
    ​Apple | Spotify | Google
    Picture
    Belonging Begins Here.
    Picture

    Archives

    March 2023
    February 2023

    Categories

    All
    Advocacy
    Community
    Event
    Intersectionality
    Qpoc
    Support
    Unity Circle
    Volunteer

    RSS Feed

Location
603 East Town Street
Columbus, OH 43215
​614-294-5437 (10am - 6pm)
​info@kycohio.org
Mailing Address
Kaleidoscope Youth Center
P.O. Box 8104
​Columbus, OH 43201
Emergency Phone Numbers
+ 911 if emergency
+ National Suicide Hotline: 800-273-8255
​+ Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860
About Us
Staff
Board of Directors
Careers
Visit Us
Contact Us
KYC Store
Accessibility
Financials
need help?
Media/Press  
Press Releases

Picture
Picture
Picture
Picture
* Kaleidoscope Youth Center acknowledges that we are on the traditional territory and homelands of the Hopewell, Myaamia, and Shawandasse Tula (Shawanwaki/Shawnee) people. *
The Kaleidoscope Youth Center name and logo are copyrighted. All rights are reserved by Kaleidoscope Youth Center, Inc.
  • Programs
    • Center Based Programs >
      • Genderscope
    • Community Based Wellness
    • Ohio GSA Network
    • Community Education >
      • KnowTheFacts
      • Ohio Thrives
    • Resources
    • Advocacy
  • Get Involved
    • As a Youth
    • As a Guardian
    • As a Community >
      • Blog
    • As a Volunteer
  • Calendar
  • Donate
    • Other Ways To Give
    • The Unity Soiree
    • KYC Unity Circle
    • Wish List
    • KYC Store